Well... the Phantom is gonna share a BIG secret with all of you here on this update... erm... the BIG SECRET is... Phantom has attained "ENLIGHTENMENT" in his love life...
How often do you blokes ask yourselves, "Why can't my relationship last?"... or "Why is my partner treating me like that?"... Well, it is plain simple... you juz haven't learnt how to love yet...
You see... very often, when people fall in love... they'd do the most amazing things for the one they love... and most of the time, they do it willingly with no qualms... but that's when love is juz at its budding stage... However, when they get much closer and begin to be more comfortable with each other, that's when things start to wither... WHY??? erm... that's what we are about to find out here... the Phantom has three secret ways to keep love alive...
Firstly, learn to love and give love UNCONDITIONALLY... the most common reason why couples complained about their relationship is because they love (or give love) with an expectation... so initially, when love is still at its budding stage... everything is sweet and nice... that's b'coz couples would gladly accept the flaws in their partners coz they are happy with the way their partners are loving them (within their expectations). Thus, as time prevails, they expect more from their partners... and when they don't get what they are looking for... they get disheartened and feel that they love their partners more than they are being loved... What they don't realise is that their partners have not loved them any less... juz that they've grown to expect more... so... if you love someone... give love but don't expect it to be returned in alike manner... true love means that you're juz happy loving that someone regardless if that love is reciprocated or not...
Secondly, learn to communicate... how often do you tell you best friend things that your would NEVER tell your partners... how many times have you gotta lie to your partners juz to have a boys-nite-out with your pals... why??? If the two of you plan to share a life together, why can't you feel at complete ease with each other... ahhh... that's when both of you fail to communicate... always talk things out and make your partners understand your needs... and always listen more than you speak... ever wondered why God made man with two ears but only one mouth??? well... HE wants us to listen twice as much as we speak...
Lastly, learn to forgive... we are all humans... and there are times where we fall prey to our weaknesses... as a couple, you should be a pillar of support to your partners when they fall... showing your discontent only bridge your guys further apart... to enjoy a life together, it means that you share... and that's means the good times as well as the bad... as the saying goes... "To err is human... To forgive is DIVINE"...
Well... these are some wise words from the phantom... hope that will help make more loving couples on this planet... remember, to have a lasting relationship, you have to love, share and forgive... you must be a lover, a companion and a friend...
(KPNN-LoveLine)
UPDATES:
Bet you blokes must be dying to know more insight on the Phantom's love-life... well, the Phantom has reached "ENLIGHTENMENT" in his love-life... though the girl of his dreams has yet accepted his love (yeah.. still), he found no boundaries for his love... he has so much to give and he's not at all bothered if she reciprocates likewise... Psst... she does have some good feelings for him lar (he guess so lar)... I would say its always better to be loved than to love... don't you agree??? Let's all pray that she will grow to see the love he has for her and accept his love in time to come... Nonetheless, the Phantom has declared that no matter what happens... his love is NON-REFUNDABLE...
(KPNN-Gossips)
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