Have you ever experience this before.... That you feel frustrated with life.. with the things around you.. with the people around you.. with the world around you...??? That nothing you ever do is ever good enough for anything? That there are so many problems in your life that waking up each day to face it, is a drag??? That you feel so UNMOTIVATED that you cannot possibly find any reasons to be happy???
Yes?
Well... the good news is.... billions of people go thru this EVERYDAY... the fact that we feel this way, is because humans' visions are very narrow... when something bad happens or when something troubles us... we withdraw ourselves up into our little shell and start to amplify the miseries that we are experiencing... the more we withdraw... the bigger the problem gets...
Guys... you've got to SNAP OUT OF IT... you've got to look beyond these problems that are bogging you down... BECAUSE... these negative de-motivators will consume you if you don't snap out of it... you will get so sucked into your miseries that you won't find any drive or energy to do anything else... and even if there are lots of things waiting for you to accomplish, you can't do it because you are too obsessed and engulfed by your miseries to focus on the global views of life... you are so into your own small self-centred world that you forgot that there's a bigger world out there with bigger and more important things waiting for you to accomplish...
Please take a look at this video below. It may be a bit long and boring at the start. But sit thru it and progressively (if you really listen to it and internalize what they are saying) you will experience a break-thru at the end of it that is really AWESOME.. It is so spirits-lifting...
Enjoy it...
Cheers.
5 comments:
You seem very well educated and love to write.
You know sometimes people wish to forget those unhappiness but they are hard to erase off. May be I would say there is something that unable to give up or still hoping for miracles.
You're just unhappy with that kind of story ending. You really hope could change to a happy ending, don't you?
Hi Stella,
I do acknowledge that there are many that has a dark side that they can't get out of. And I'm not trying to reverse a sad story to make it a happy one... but what I really hope to do is to help people walk out of their dark moments to see that there's more in life than the pain that they've been thru... that is the only way to heal... there are things that we can change but there are many that we can't... know what we can change and do it (like getting out of the pain that we are feeling)... for the things we can't change, accept it and move on... don't like it stop us from feeling happy again...
Life has not been a bed of roses for me... in fact, if I were to tell you what I've been thru, you'd probably drop your jaw... but I've time and again walked out of those times of darkness and pain, again and again...
I'm no super-human... I'm just another flesh and blood just like anyone else... and there's no secret in how I can walk out of those devastating times of my life in one piece... like a magician, you'd only be marveled if you do not know the "secret" of his trick or illusion... but once you discover the "secret", you'd be able to do that too with a conscious effort on your part...
I think you would agree that very often, people in grief or pain cannot heal because they do not want to heal (as you have suggested)... they rather remain trapped within that dimension of hurt and pain than to walk out of it to accept reality and move on to find happiness...
For example... you walk into a shop and bought a blouse... after getting home, you find that you've made a wrong choice or the blouse has a defect.. what do you do?? You can either blame yourself... blame the shop... blame whatever... and remain in misery... or accept it as a bad experience and move on...
What I'm trying to do here is to help those that are caught in this vicious cycle of building walls to contain their miseries... to really break free... and don't ever short changed themselves just because they've got a bad experience...
Life is beautiful... but only if you choose to see it that way...
Take care and if you need any motivation or reason to want to break free... feel free to contact me... I'd be glad to help...
Cheers.
Martin
This video is absolutely inspirational. I like it very much. Thanks for sharing.
When I saw the video, I thought that woman sound so much like me and when I hear what the panel had to say, it struck me. It really did. Thanks so much.
u r rite
thanx for the lift.
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